We just returned from New York City. Visiting the Big Apple during the Christmas season was on our bucket list, and this year we made it happen. Bill and I went to Manhattan in February 2008 with Bill’s youngest sister, Maria, and her husband, Curt. I also went as a high schooler when I was seventeen.
Last week, we went back to New York with our traveling companions and what fun we had! Part of our visit had to be a trip to High Line Park, located thirty feet above the busy streets near Chelsea Market and the Meatpacking District. Although it was early winter, our visit was still extraordinary. Last summer, I did a lot of research on the High Line for a project, and it was magical to see the abandoned railway and gardens come alive beneath my feet. Continue reading “A trip to High Line Park”
Now, that we’re done with my normal seediness, let’s do ten tips to get started gardening.
Hell, I don’t know where to start some years. In winter, I walk out in the garden and just stare at it for awhile. It’s as if it takes the spring breeze to blow all the cobwebs from my winter brain. Once I begin removing the insulating cover of dead foliage from emerging plants though, I find that the gentle rhythms–old as time–take over, and I’m whole again. Fortunately, I have last year’s pictures and the scent of my hyacinths to get me in a planting mood.
Today is cloudy and gloomy for the fifth day in a row, but I’m thinking ahead to spring. While I’m pondering where to start, let me give you some tips.
Start Small. When we’re bitten by the gardening bug, we just want to grow everything. That may not be true of everyone, but I know it’s certainly true where I’m concerned. I rarely meet a plant, seed or garden tool I don’t like. Amorphophallus titanum, carrion flower might be one exception–Don’t hate me you carrion flower lovers. Gardeners don’t need to grow everything. That’s why we have stores, local flower farmers, CSAs and farmers’ markets. Thank goodness.
Prepare. If you’re working in garden soil instead of potting mixes and containers, a soil test can make your garden efforts easier. Think ahead about how you will water. Drip irrigation is essential in a dry garden. Will you have rain barrels? If so, get several and position them all around the house. One or two rain barrels isn’t enough to make a difference unless you use them for one bed like I do. You’ll still need other ways to water. Will you grow veggies, flowers or both? What do you like to eat? To see? What are you trying to express in your garden? Are you going for form or function or both? It might seem obvious to ask, but so many people don’t think about these things before they dig. Don’t grow food you don’t like to eat. Also, don’t grow flowers or fauna that you don’t like to smell. That takes us back to carrion flower again. It’s also called corpse flower for a reason. Your garden is yours. If you like a Japanese style garden, and it works in your climate, great. If you want a small urban farm, wonderful. Still, start small and prepare.
Assemble a few tools. I simply must have my DeWit Dutch Hand Hoe and a Japanese Hori Hori Knife. I also like my five gallon bucket to carry around my tools along with garden gloves. You’ll also need hoses and hose-end sprayers. I haven’t found a hose-end sprayer I really like, but I keep hoping. The closest one so far is my Haws V360 All Brass 24-Inch Watering Lance that I use in the greenhouse. It’s pricey, but makes a good present from someone special. I only use hose-end sprayers for watering in new plants, or in the greenhouse. Otherwise, the garden, including my containers, is on a drip system.
Know your conditions. How much space do you have? Is your yard shady, or full of sun? Most of mine is full of sun, but I do have some shady spots too. It took me a long time to learn the sun’s path in my garden because my house faces west. In the early spring, it’s very sunny which can be hard on some plants. Once the trees leaf out, it is shady again. Learn your climate zone and grow within it for awhile before you venture outward. All experienced gardeners try to grow outside their climate zone by creating microclimates.
Ask for help. Talk to your neighbors. Join a gardening class at your local nursery or garden extension. Think about joining a community garden where there’s lots of garden discussion. Join a gardening club. Note the operative word here. Join. Club members have the best plants, and they will share them with you along with the knowledge of how to grow. Plus, you’ll have the fast track to any speakers coming to speak at your club. I’m speaking at the Tulsa Herb Society this year, along with numerous local clubs and across the U.S.. I’m still finalizing several talks, and I’ll link to them as the contracts are signed.
Don’t let seed, plant and tool catalogs overwhelm you. After you consider how much space you have to plant, don’t overbuy. Catalogs are called garden porn for a reason. Go through your previous year’s seeds before ordering more.
Use technology to keep track. Try Evernote for Android and Notes for iPhone. Evernote works on iPhone too, but I like Notes better. It’s less complicated, and you can still drag photos and links into it. Make a commitment to keep better track of your garden this year. Take photos of what worked and what didn’t. Dictate notes into your phone. It’s not only how I garden. It’s how I wrote major portions of my book. I found that I was most inspired when I was out in the garden. Is dictation perfect? No, but it’s getting better, and you clean it up later on your computer because everything is saved across platforms. Plus, you can copy links to online articles on various topics. You can link to my blogs, or my Instagram profile if you want. Everything on the Internet has an address that you can copy and put into your notes. This is the nice way to remember someone’s posts, and it doesn’t involve scraping.
Embrace imperfection and failure. We all fail. Let me repeat. We all fail. I kill plants. Of course I do. I forget to water sometimes, or I go on vacation, and the system breaks down. I might not get plants covered before a freeze. Mistakes happen, and I can be as sloppy as the next person. It’s okay. Really. Embrace imperfection. You’ll be a lot happier. Plus, you can buy another plant at the nursery, or you can plant more seeds. Last spring, with all the rain, I replanted my green beans three times. My tomatoes worked great because most of them were in the raised beds of the potager. I saw many gardeners frustrated because the rain washed their tomatoes away. I felt their pain, but I just said, replant. If I can impart one thing to you, it’s this: Don’t try so hard to be perfect. Gardening is an art and a craft. It takes time to learn it, and Nature is a fickle mistress.
Slow and steady grows the tomato. Plants take time to mature. Give them that time. Don’t hurry them along too much. Don’t plant out tomatoes, eggplant or peppers until late April after all possibility of freezing temperatures are gone. The same with warm weather annuals. Patience, grasshopper.
Try not to compare. Human beings are competitive to a fault. Facebook depression is real and not just for teens. Social media is great, but people are sharing only a tiny portion of their lives with you. Statuses don’t tell the whole story.
Your gardening journey is yours alone. Instead of looking at it as a competition (Best grown rose anyone?) consider it personal expression. Remember you’re an artist in your garden, and you don’t need to explain yourself to anyone. Follow your heart.