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I’m Dee Nash, a native Oklahoman, and I’ve gardened here since my teens. I know from personal experience how challenging our prairie climate can be.
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Favorite perennials from Bustani Plant Farm
A couple of weeks ago, I ran up to Stillwater to visit Bustani Plant Farm, which as you know, is my favorite nursery. I had a lovely time, and I bought a lot of plants. Where do I put them all? Shrug. It's a big garden--about an acre and a half total. This post started out as a list of all my favorite plants from Bustani Plant Farm, but it became too long. So, let's start with my favorite perennials, shall we? Cestrum 'Orange Peel.' I think Steve and Ruth Owens sell two other varieties of cestrum also, but the one I grow is 'Orange Peel.' It blooms in the middle of summer for a long time and is a great backdrop for other large-flowered plants. 'Orange Peel' grows about three feet high in my garden in full screamin' sun. I grow it next to 'Pink Velour' crapemyrtle and Salvia greggii 'Pink Preference.'...
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Blessed be gardens and weddings in May
It's the beginning of May. Sorry I haven't written in a couple of weeks. You must forgive me. Like the garden, I am gathering my strength, girding my loins, and getting ready to launch myself and the garden into June. We are facing the calendar and weather with courage, the kind that's said its prayers. We have weddings and graduations in May and a regional daylily garden tour in June. We are fixing fences, building beds and borders, and weeding, always weeding. Anything we can't fix, we will cover with mulch and call it good. We are fluffing with abandon. This is the back garden from atop a side border. I am standing on top of the retaining wall about five feet in the air. No bulb foliage here, but you can see the great, greenness that is early May. Most of the garden is in its green phase between...
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Problem plants
In my garden, there are four or five real problem plants. I have other interlopers, but the following natives and non-natives are really bad actors in my leaf-mold enriched soil. Note: most natives can be kept in check if you don't water much and have lean, sandy soil. My garden's natural soil is red sand with large pockets of clay. Over the years, I've enriched it with Back to Nature cotton burr compost, my own homemade compost and shredded leaves along with various wood bark mulches. My current favorite is shredded pine bark, but it can sometimes be hard to find. Our first problem child, 'er plant, is Verbesina alternifolia, commonly known as wingstem and yellow ironweed. When it blooms in summer, it is beautiful, and pollinators adore it. I do not. This native absolutely loves my garden and all of its resident plants...to death. I've ripped and pulled and done...
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Rain-soaked garden
Most of Oklahoma got rain night before last. The rain-soaked garden woke up yesterday morning to singing birds, crawling caterpillars and me stalking it with my camera. There is nothing more pleasurable than spring in an Oklahoma garden, except, maybe fall, but spring is being extra good to us this year. I almost always approach the back garden from the French doors leading out onto my deck. I'm getting ready to skip down the stairs and out onto the gravel paths. This week I got all of my pots planted except one that held a blueberry bush. I was waiting to see if it was alive. Blueberries often go dormant here, but it definitely looks dead. I'll replace it with something from Bustani Plant Farm on Monday. Rain in Oklahoma is cause for celebration, and it looks like we're in a stormy pattern for the next week or so. We need...
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