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Merely sleeping

3 December, 2011 By Dee Nash

by Dee Nash
3 December, 2011Filed under:
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  • Seeds

A garden long ago.

One spring, forty years ago, a young girl toddled after her grandmother in the small yard behind her grandmother’s white-frame house. The girl was five with plain, brown hair cut into a bob, and cat’s-eye glasses perched upon her nose. She wore black, patent, Mary Jane shoes which pinched her feet and a dress sewn by her mother out of cotton, made soft by many washings. Her grandmother shortened her long strides for the girl to follow. She grabbed a hoe and made a short furrow in the dark earth. The girl bent over and dropped gray and white, striped seeds into the valley made by the hoe.

The earth was damp with dew and black from all of the compost and manure lavished upon it. It hummed with life.

Of course, the little girl didn’t know all these things then.  She just knew she wanted to be near her grandmother. Smelling of soap and starch and home, her grandmother knelt next to her and showed her how to cover the seeds, pat the soil, and put them “to bed.”

Thanks to the National Sunflower Association

The girl laughed and said  she didn’t think the seeds were sleeping. Her grandmother professed the seeds were just like Sleeping Beauty. They needed water just like Beauty needed her prince, to wake them when it was time. So, she handed a blue, plastic watering can to the girl who sprinkled the earth where the seeds lay.

The little girl’s parents came to pick her up, and, because they lived far away, it was summer before the girl returned. Still, she remembered the seeds, and she wondered if they had woken from their slumber. She tugged on her grandmother’s hand. As her grandmother bent her dark head for a hug and kiss, the little girl whispered in her ear, “Are they still sleeping?”

Her grandmother smiled and gave her a squeeze, “We’ll go look in a bit,” she said.

Lunch was on the table, and with the taste of fresh, sliced tomatoes, green beans and cornbread, the little girl forgot the seeds. Plus, she was soon sleepy. Her mother lifted and carried her back to the bedroom which was always hers when they came to visit. Her grandmother covered her with a quilt, and soon, she was fast asleep.

Chickens

When she woke, she rubbed her eyes and remembered. She ran into the kitchen, and although the adults were now on their second piece of pie, drinking coffee and catching up, her grandmother pulled her into her lap.

“Do you still want to see the seeds?” Before the girl scarcely had time to nod, they were out  back. The screen door slapped behind them with a squeak and slam of its rusty springs.

The girl threw out her hands and stood bewildered before the garden plot where vegetables now vied for space with flowers, and chickens clucked from their covered yard nearby. For, in front of her were sunflowers so tall, she had to shade her eyes and throw back her head to see them. Their nodding flowers nearly blotted out the blue of the sky, and their stems were almost as thick as the little girl’s wrists.

“Where did the seeds go, Grandma?”

“That’s them,” said her grandmother with a smile, “When they woke up, they grew and grew until they were taller than me and you.”

Sunflower

Many years later, the little girl, now grown and a mother herself, rushed to her grandmother’s bedside when her father called and said, “Come soon.”

She held her grandmother’s hand on one of the darkest days of winter just shy of the Solstice. Now old and tired, her first and truest friend, who had taught her so much about gardening and life, lay dying, but she opened her eyes when she heard her granddaughter’s voice.

As her granddaughter leaned in close, she heard her say in a voice as thin as crepe paper, “I hate this time of year. It’s all looks so brown and gray. Everything is old and sad. The trees, the plants . . . even me.”

For the grandmother knew her heart wouldn’t hold out much longer, and fall and winter always made her sad.

A tear traced down her wrinkled cheek, and her granddaughter’s eyes leaked in sympathy and sadness. She searched for the right words to comfort this woman she loved so much.

Angel

“Grandmama,” she said, “They’re only sleeping. They just need a bit of  rest like you. You are Sleeping Beauty. When the time is right, your Prince will come, and you will wake from your sleep.”

A sad smile tugged at the edge of her grandmother’s mouth, and her granddaughter knew she remembered the day they planted seeds together. She closed her eyes and spoke no more while her granddaughter kept vigil by her bedside the rest of that long, cold, lonely night.

Now, when the granddaughter sees the dark, gray and brown of an Oklahoma winter, she always thinks of her grandmother, and she whispers to the wind, “He will wipe every tear from our eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”

 

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  1. Brooke - Creative Country Mom says

    13 December, 2011 at 3:22 pm

    I had to go back and find this one to save it. It brought back so many memories of my grandmother. Dee I think this is my favorite thing you have ever written. I could not have said it better, just perfect. I will share this with my garden club next meeting. Love…Brooke

  2. Melanie says

    4 December, 2011 at 11:25 pm

    What a wonderful memory!! I’m so glad that you got the chance to be with her as she passed into a place where everything is beautiful EVERY day FOREVER!!

  3. sandy lawrence says

    4 December, 2011 at 11:14 am

    Thanks you so much for the lovely, beautifully written story. It allowed me to visit in tender memory my own wonderful grandmother, my childhood champion and mentor.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:02 pm

      I think a lot of us had grandparents who were our champions. Thank you for reading and for letting me know it touched your heart.

  4. Daricia @aCLTgarden says

    4 December, 2011 at 1:35 am

    what a blessed grandmother to have such a faithful granddaughter. beautiful.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:02 pm

      Thank you so much Daricia. I loved her very much. Still do.

  5. Donna says

    3 December, 2011 at 10:07 pm

    This was such a touching story, one to bring a tear to the eye, and even a smile to the face. Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed the way you told the story.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:02 pm

      Thank you. I like telling stories in narrative form sometimes. It takes me back to my novel roots.

  6. Gardener on Sherlock Street says

    3 December, 2011 at 9:47 pm

    So sweet. You are blessed to have had her as a grandmother.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:03 pm

      I am. Thank you.

  7. Lisa at Greenbow says

    3 December, 2011 at 8:03 pm

    What a sad yet sweet story Dee. I could feel the love oozing off the page.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:03 pm

      Thank you Lisa so much.

  8. Mary Ann says

    3 December, 2011 at 6:07 pm

    Oh, our beloved Grandmothers. Still with us. Thanks, Dee.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:04 pm

      Yes, and I thank God for them for both of us. We are lucky women most of all because we’re friends.

  9. Greggo says

    3 December, 2011 at 6:01 pm

    That my Oklahoma friend, was awesome. G.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:04 pm

      Greggo, thank you so much for reading.

  10. rock rose says

    3 December, 2011 at 5:51 pm

    I love the way you told the story. It brought a tear.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:05 pm

      Thank you RR.

  11. Gail says

    3 December, 2011 at 5:29 pm

    Dee, That was beautiful…xxoogail

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:05 pm

      Thank you Gail.

  12. Toni - Signature Gardens says

    3 December, 2011 at 4:45 pm

    What a precious story…and legacy 🙂 Speaking of wiping tears, I need to go do that now. Love that verse 🙂 Like that one sunflower seed produced so many more when it grew and flowered and went to seed, so the “seed” planted in you by your grandmother has now caused no doubt countless garden friends to grow and bloom and be inspired by you 🙂 Thank you for sharing such a wonderful story!

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:06 pm

      Thank you Toni very much. I’m glad the connection was clear. I try to pass on the lessons she taught me in the garden and out.

  13. Donna@Gardens Eye View says

    3 December, 2011 at 4:37 pm

    Dee what a beautiful story…hard to put my feelings into words, type and hold the kleenex…

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:06 pm

      Thank you Donna. I cried as I wrote it. Dark, winter days always make me think of her.

  14. Rebecca B says

    3 December, 2011 at 4:32 pm

    I love this so much!!

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:07 pm

      Thank you Rebecca.

  15. Carol says

    3 December, 2011 at 4:26 pm

    What a beautiful story and I love that you shared it with us. So sweet.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:07 pm

      Thank you Carol. I’m glad no one thought it was “too much.”

  16. Esther Montgomery says

    3 December, 2011 at 4:09 pm

    Can’t say anything.

    Love

    Esther

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:07 pm

      Love to you too Esther. Thank you for simply stopping by.

  17. Barbee' says

    3 December, 2011 at 4:05 pm

    What a precious post!

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:08 pm

      Thank you Barbee’.

  18. CurtissAnn says

    3 December, 2011 at 3:43 pm

    Honey-bunny, just beautiful. How grateful I am to know you, and that you write, and show the way for many of us to wake up and grow, until it is our time to move on.

    • Dee Nash says

      4 December, 2011 at 3:08 pm

      Thank you Rosebud, my long-time and treasured friend.

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