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A redwork memorial quilt

Bill and I went to the Vintage Tulsa Show on Saturday, and I found several lovely things including a redwork memorial quilt. We are big fans of antiquing, and our home reflects our passion for all things old and worn. When I unwrapped the red and white quilt at the show, I was pretty sure it was a memorial or grief quilt. Women and men often made bereavement quilts when they lost someone they loved. People still do.

Redwork memorial quilt. I placed it on my bed so you could see it spread out. If I were a better stylist, I would have straightened the quote above our bed and stuff, but I’m just not. We found the cedar blanket chest at the show too. What a great day!

How did I know?

Two blocks, in particular, stood out to me. One contained the words, “I’ll be with you when the Roses Bloom Again,” and the other stated, “Rest Here Thy Weary Head.” I’m capitalizing them the way they were embroidered on the quilt below.

“Rest here thy weary head” embroidered in red on the quilt.

Down the rabbit hole I go.

These two blocks sent me down a rabbit hole trying to figure out the time period for the quilt. I believe from the wear on the edges of the binding and the red and white composition, that it is from the late 1920s. I collect quilts, and I have several different red and white ones. It’s not gardening-related, but if you’re interested, I could write another post about my favorite quilts.

Basket of roses in redwork.

My grandmothers were quilters, and I’ve helped make quilts too.

Both of my grandmothers were great quilters, and my Grandma Nita was my first and truest friend. I wrote a memorial to her in 2011. I found it this morning as I searched through my writing. Don’t read it if you don’t want to cry. She always had quilts on her beds, and even now, my favorite thing is to crawl beneath a quilt–not a priceless one–on a cold winter’s night. There is nothing better or more comforting.

I laid the quilt out on my bed to give you an idea. It appears to be queen-sized.

How old is it?

I really don’t know the quilt’s age, but to get a better idea, I ordered Red & White: American Redwork Quilts & Patterns, by Deborah Harding–a storied redwork collector–to see if I can date the patterns on the blocks. I’ll let you know if I discover anything.

Red and white quilts can be quite difficult to find. They reached their peak between the late 1800s and through the Depression. They had a resurgence in the 1990s probably due to various shows around the country. Another book I own is Red & White Quilts Infinite Variety, by Elizabeth V. Warren with Maggi Gordon. It’s a compilation of the red and white quilts shown at the American Folk Art Museum in 2011.

Embroidered title and lyric of the song on my red and white memorial quilt.

A song title, lyric, or both?

The first phrase on my quilt refers to a song written in 1901 by Will Cobb and Gus Edwards, “I’ll be with You When the Roses Bloom Again.“

The first verse goes like this:

They were strolling in the gloaming
Where the roses were in bloom
A soldier and his sweetheart brave and true
And their hearts were filled with sorrow
For their thoughts were of tomorrow
As she pinned a rose upon his coat of blue

A later lyric is the same as the song’s title and my quilt’s phrase. The soldier is going to the Spanish-American War, not the Civil War, although you might think it from that last line.

“Rest here thy weary head” embroidered in red on the quilt.

A hymn sung at funerals.

I’m sure others will recognize the second phrase referencing a line in the hymn, “I Heard the Voice of Jesus say,” by Horatius Bonar, in 1846. Bonar was a Scottish minister. According to the Church of Scotland website, “The first half of each verse recalls a different saying of Jesus while the contrasting second half is the response of the singer, a pattern echoed in the tune ‘The Rowan Tree’, from the ballad by Lady Nairne (1766-1845), who also collected the tune (origin unknown).” We often sing this hymn at funerals.

“Come unto Me, and rest;
Lay down, thou weary one, lay down
Thy head upon My breast.”
I came to Jesus as I was,
Weary, and worn, and sad;
I found in Him a resting-place,
And He has made me glad.

Bluebirds or swallows with a rose on the redwork memorial quilt.

Bluebirds or swallows. Roses, narcissus and tulips.

The other blocks in this redwork memorial quilt are interesting. Several blocks have roses in various bloom stages. Some blocks are ornate while others are quite simple. There are baskets of strawberries, stylized tulips and narcissus, and other floral emblems. There is also a block containing bluebirds or swallows–the swallow is a symbol of the resurrection. Bluebirds often symbolize hope, love, and renewal. I heard a bluebird sing when I was moving my mother’s things out of her apartment two weeks ago.

Nine-patch blocks between connecting borders.

Quilt construction.

The construction of the quilt is also interesting. The quilter was skilled. She has very small stitches except on the nine-patch blocks. These look like the work of a teenager or preteen. I know because I used to be one of those who tried my hand at hand quilting. The stitches are somewhat uneven. Maybe the stitches just show up differently against the red fabric. I can’t tell if the piecing is done by machine or hand, but the quilting is by hand.

Redwork memorial quilt
Two block comparison of roses and a stylized flower.

When I began looking at the redwork memorial quilt, the lady who owned it said she bought it because she lost her sister, and her sister loved roses. She said she was ready to let it go, and she’d forgotten she had it so this was the first time she brought it out to sell. I explained my mother’s name was Rose, and I lost her three weeks ago. The lady teared up, hugged me, and said the quilt must be mine.

Stylized narcissus on one block.

There really is no reason why the redwork memorial quilt didn’t sell before the second day. It was far too fine a piece and in nearly perfect condition. Red and White quilts are very collectible and becoming quite rare. As I carried it around the show rolled up in a sack, several people stopped me to admire it.

Another interesting and odd coincidence: when I was very young, I had a lazy eye, and I had three surgeries to correct it. I also spent hours doing various versions of therapy to correct the problem. One of these therapies was to do redwork embroidery while wearing a red plastic eyepatch on the other eye. It was supposed to help my eye muscle grow stronger. It was my favorite form of therapy, and I spent hours embroidering various pieces of fruit in red thread on white cloth.

I don’t really believe in coincidences. I do believe that God speaks to us in mysterious ways, especially when He knows something touches our hearts. I think the lady was right. The quilt was meant for me.

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20 February, 2022 By Dee Nash

Filed Under: Gardening Tagged With: Collections, Embroidery, Memorial Quilts, Memorials, Quilting, Quilts, Red and White Quilts, Redwork Embroidered Quilts

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  1. Doris G

    21 February, 2022 at 6:15 pm

    You are traveling a tough road right now but you are not alone! The Lord is with you always! I recently lost my husband and a few months later my Mom. I found comfort, love, and strength in my relationship with Him! I love all the info on this quilt. I too come from grandmas (and my mom) who were quilters and I am quilting some myself. I have been so blessed in finding your blog! Thank you for sharing!

  2. Patricia Evans

    21 February, 2022 at 4:33 pm

    First, my condolences on the death of your mother. I missed your last posting. Secondly, as a gardener who also quilts (or maybe I’m a quilter who also gardens), I’d love to read more about your quilts.

  3. Linda Brazill

    21 February, 2022 at 11:56 am

    What a treasure! As a sometimes stitcher and collector of textiles, I especially enjoyed all of the research you shared. At a local antiques store a while ago I saw a stack of red and white quilts and wanted to just sit and see who bought what.

  4. Becky Kirts

    21 February, 2022 at 9:33 am

    I love to go antique hunting and browsing. It is so cool to learn about history thru found objects. The quilt is beautiful and looks right at home on your bed. A special hug from your Mom every night. Thanks so much for sharing your rabbit hole, I really enjoyed the post!

    • Dee Nash

      21 February, 2022 at 9:48 am

      Thank you Becky! I have always loved old things. So much work went into them. So much love.

  5. Jennifer Hancock

    21 February, 2022 at 9:30 am

    I have never found a red quilt in all my antiquing years. Wow! Something new to look for…..? I would love to read more of your life experiences with quilts and flora and fauna threaded throughout. I met you in Edmond at a United Methodist Women program many moons ago and have truly enjoyed following your writings.

    Jennifer Hancock Seguin, TX

    • Dee Nash

      21 February, 2022 at 9:50 am

      Hi Jennifer, I remember that talk! It was on Marian gardens. Really fun. So nice to hear from you. I’ll be glad to write again about quilts and such, and you know what? Almost everything in my life has flora and fauna mixed in. I can’t help myself. ~~Dee

  6. Coco

    21 February, 2022 at 8:43 am

    Such an informative post and so lovely. Thanks.

    • Dee Nash

      21 February, 2022 at 9:51 am

      Thank you Coco. It came from the heart. ~~Dee

  7. Kay G.

    20 February, 2022 at 6:14 pm

    I truly love that red and white quilt and I am so very happy it is now yours. Lovely post.

    • Maria Meyer

      21 February, 2022 at 8:23 am

      Time well spent antiquing with Bill! What a wonderful quilt! I am glad you had such a healing day and that your quilt has such a wonderful new home. I also love your new chest, what a beauty it is!

      • Dee Nash

        21 February, 2022 at 9:52 am

        Hi Maria, it was such a splendid day. We also found the loveliest lamp with its shade the color of honey. I am so grateful for a tiny trip and time away.~~Dee

    • Dee Nash

      21 February, 2022 at 9:53 am

      Thank you so much Kay. I will take great care of it. 🙂 ~~Dee

  8. ML

    20 February, 2022 at 3:46 pm

    Don’t you just love God’s timing and how He sometimes is very obvious in showing His love for you?

    Please do write a post about your favorite quilts! I’d love to read it.

    • Dee Nash

      20 February, 2022 at 3:48 pm

      I think perhaps he is so obvious for me because I can be very obtuse. Ha! I’d love to write a post about some of my favorite quilts. It might take a few posts. :)~~Dee

      • Judy Ann Meek

        20 February, 2022 at 5:04 pm

        I love reading your ramblings lol, I’m not a gardener, but love seeing your beautiful gardens

        • Dee Nash

          21 February, 2022 at 9:54 am

          Hi Judy, thank you so much! You don’t have to be a gardener to love gardens and other beautiful things. I appreciate your kind words so much.~~Dee

  9. Jennie

    20 February, 2022 at 2:37 pm

    This just may be your most beautiful writing, and very touching. So happy you found the quilt. ?

    • Dee Nash

      20 February, 2022 at 3:48 pm

      Thank you Jennie. I so appreciate your sweet words. ~~Dee

  10. Betty Bonds. 1601 Egan. Denton, Texas. 76201

    20 February, 2022 at 2:27 pm

    Beautiful quilt. What a treasure you have. Enjoyed your article and all of the pictures. My grandmother was a quilter too. Thanks for posting this.

    • Dee Nash

      20 February, 2022 at 2:30 pm

      Hi Betty, thank you! I’m glad you enjoyed it. I sure enjoyed going down the rabbit hole. Thanks for coming with me. ~~Dee

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